Being single isn’t a sad story. I’m not sure exactly when people started taking this subject seriously, but the thing is being in a relationship or not should not be a goal or a misery. Being in a relationship should be a positive thing to add more to our lives not otherwise. So, whenever you feel suspicious about yourself for being single, remember this:
1. It’s Okay:
Being single isn’t something constant in our lives, today you’re single tomorrow you’re in a great relationship. There’s no hurry to find your life partner in a specific age or phase in your life. You should not look up to current people in relationships as a model, each one of us has his/her own timeline, so don’t hurry things up.
2. It’s time to get to know yourself:
When we’re on our own, we usually face things by ourselves and go through our ups and downs along our everyday life. The amount of lessons you could learn about life is countless, and deep down you’d find the real you. Get to know yourself better for a healthier relationship.
3. The right person hasn’t showed up yet:
There’s no place for toxic relationships. You’ve to learn that being in a relationship with a wrong partner isn’t the best thing ever. Maybe you haven’t met the right person yet, and there’s no deadline for such a meet-up.
4. Your career life is as important as your romance life:
Whether you’re a guy or a girl, your career must have your attention. Though being in a relationship won’t stop you from working on yourself, you’ve to establish an enough space in your life for your study and career. On so many basis you being busy working develop a huge part of your personality which helps you to overcome different problems in several ways, and gains you some skills you’d need along your life.
5. The older you’re the wiser you become:
The older you get, the more stories you get to experience whether from your friends and family. You indirectly get to know more about relationships without being in one, and eventually when you find the one you’d be almost 100% sure that he/she is the one. It’s not like when you choose in a young age you choose wrong, but your priorities in your dream partner would change and be more configured.
Lastly, love would find its way on the perfect timing, there’s no place for stressing and freaking out. Being single isn’t the new miserable trend!